Words I like: “Doing hard things is an underrated form of self-respect.”
You slipped on your diet again.
Good.
You missed the lift.
Good.
You’re exhausted, sore, behind on sleep, and wondering if you’re cut out for this.
Good.
That voice in your head? The one that says you’re failing? It’s trying to give you an out. It wants comfort, not growth. But growth lives on the far side of discomfort. If you’ve never wanted to quit, you haven’t worked hard enough yet.
Jocko Willink, retired U.S. Navy SEAL officer and leadership author, has it right. Something goes wrong? Good. Didn’t get what you wanted? Good. Welcome to the forge. Because when you can look a setback in the eye and say “Good,” you take its power away. Now it’s just fuel.

Your fat loss stalled?
Good. Now you get to build your consistency when the easy wins are gone.
You got injured?
Good. You’ll finally take mobility and warm-up seriously.
Someone else is stronger, leaner, faster?
Good. Now you’ve got something to chase.
Your PR attempts hit a wall?
Good. Now you have no choice but to examine the holes in your program, your recovery, your ego.
If every time life punched you in the mouth, you got stronger instead of softer, how long before you became unstoppable?
But let’s be honest. Most people don’t want that.
They want to “feel motivated,” to follow a perfectly laid-out plan with no bad days, no setbacks, no cravings. And when that fantasy falls apart, which it will, they fold.
Don’t be like them.
Next time something breaks, pause. Then say it out loud: Good.
Now what?
You adapt. You adjust the training. You prep your meals tighter. You tighten your sleep schedule. You stretch instead of scroll. You rebuild your base. You show up again.
Progress doesn’t come from things going right. It comes from staying in the fight when they don’t. The road to failure and the road to success are exactly the same, the only difference is what point you get off the road.
So you hit a wall?
Good.
Now climb over it.